Monday, May 12, 2014

宝藏



有一个回乡度假的年轻人,听说离乡不远的山上有个一宝藏,但很多人说这只是个谣言。年轻人心想,尝试一下也没什么损失,况且如果真的有宝藏,他便可以让家人过上更美好的生活。

第二天一早,年轻人兴奋十足的往宝山前进。路上有一条大河,河水并不清澈,年轻人看不见河里到底有什么。年轻人准备跳下去时突然听见有人叫住他,年轻人转过身看见一个身穿黑衣的陌生小伙子站在他身边。年轻人好奇的看着黑衣小伙子。
"河里有鳄鱼,你还没游过去就会被吃掉了。"黑衣小伙子说到。
年轻人想了想便问"你怎么知道呢?你看过吗?"
黑衣小伙子回应"我没看过,可是有所耳闻"
年轻人心里有些不甘。黑衣小伙子继续"如果为了一些不知道是否存在地宝藏白白断送宝贵的生命,那有多可惜啊!"
年轻人听了觉得有道理。年轻人深怕河里藏着饥饿的鳄鱼,可是却很想得到宝藏,在河边看着对面的宝山心里开始起了矛盾,到底该勇敢地游过去还是就此放弃?

年轻人纠结了很久,天色渐渐暗起来,年轻人也慢慢的放下了登山的念头。年轻人感谢黑衣小伙子,并且和他交上朋友。原来黑衣小伙子性工名叫凡心。在离别时年轻人再次感谢凡心的友好提醒。




回家路上,年轻人内心深处觉得非常惋惜和遗憾,一不留神碰到地上的石头摔倒了,这时一位留着小胡子的叔叔把他扶起。
"没事吧年轻人?怎么一个人到这地方来?"

年轻人摇摇头地感谢那位叔叔,并把他充满希望地往山上去直到绝望的故事告诉那叔叔。
胡子叔叔微笑这说"年轻人啊,如果河里没鳄鱼,那你还游不游呢?"
年轻人二话不说的点头,然后说到,"当然游!"

胡子叔叔认真地看着年轻人那泪汪汪的眼眶,小声的说,"年轻人、叔叔告诉你、其实河里并没有鳄鱼,只有小鱼和青蛙,你可以很安全和放心的游过去"
年轻人冷了一下,回神便说"怎么可能?凡心告诉我说河里有鳄鱼啊!我凭什么相信你?"
胡子叔叔微笑着说"那你为什么相信凡心呢?"
年轻人回答"因为他说很多人都是这么说的!"

胡子叔叔继续"你想想,如果河里真的有什么鳄鱼的话那为什么会有人成功的到达宝山,并且安然无恙的回来呢?"
年轻人想了想觉得胡子叔叔说得也有道理,仿佛黑暗的世界里突然出现了一道光芒,一丝希望。胡子叔叔看见年轻人开始有信心后说到,"follow your heart.跟着感觉去走吧。"说完后他就和年轻人道别。年轻人看着胡子叔叔的背影,叫到"谢谢你叔叔!"



当天晚上年轻人无法入眠,一直纠结到底游还是不游。夜深人静时年轻人静下心来思考。"如果河里真的有鳄鱼,那其他人怎么可能过得去呢?一定时我想太多了!好吧,明天一定要游过去!"

隔天一早年轻人走到河边,脑海不停回想凡心的劝告,害怕河里真的有鳄鱼。年轻人纠结了一会儿后看见河边有些树枝,顺手拾了一支较大较粗的树枝,把它扔进河里。年轻人看了看,河里没什么动静,便什么都不想的跳进河里,开始游了过去。

刚游不久,年轻人听见后面传来熟悉的声音,回头一看,原来是凡心。凡心不停劝年轻人赶快回头,不然游到河中央时鳄鱼就会出现了!年轻人往前看见仿佛被光芒围绕这的宝山,突然想起了胡子叔叔的一句话,"Follow your heart!"。年轻人二话不说的把眼睛闭上,继续往前游。凡心不断的在河边劝年轻人赶快回头,不然就来不及了!年轻人咬紧牙关把眼睛闭得更紧,一心只想着宝山,想着能够让家人过上更好的生活,凭着这股力量,和胡子叔叔的支持,年轻人终于游到达岸边。



上岸后年轻人欣慰得回头看,发现凡心已经不在了。年轻人继续前进,终于抵达了目的地。年轻人看见山脚上有块沾满青苔的大石头,上面刻了一些字。年轻人向前去看看,石头上刻着,
【恭喜您!这就是您找寻的宝藏。】

年轻人有些愤怒,感觉有些受骗。用力的踢了踢那块大石。大石上的一些青苔掉了下了,青苔后面刻着一些字,年轻人把挡字的青苔拿掉,仔细的看了看,上面写着,

【您过河时其实需要经过3个不同的考验,

第一关叫希望

第一天当您正想过河时,突然有个叫工凡心的人出现阻止,让您无法过河,它其实就是您内心的恐惧。当您正想放弃念头,走回家路上出现了一个留着胡子的叔叔让您重见光明,它就是希望。当晚您冷静的去衡量内心的恐惧和希望,最后是希望把您再一次带到了河边。

第二关叫勇气

当您再次来到河边时,恐惧不停在您脑海出现,让您感到害怕,这时的您拿出了勇气,二话不说的跳进河里。

第三关叫坚持

当您游了不一会儿,凡心不停劝您放弃,这时的您专注于目标,坚持信念,勇往直前,终于抵达对岸。

这三关就是这次路途中所寻找的宝藏,看透它,它便能够让您受益一生。
那条大河代表着您人生中遇到的各种抗,有时您败给了恐惧,有时候您成功跳过去。当您败给了恐惧,您就永远停滞不前,无法突破。但是,当您一担跳过那道抗时,您会发现有些幻想了很久的东西并不象幻想那样,既不美好,也不可怕。跳过眼前的那一道坎,强烈的念想也许只剩下曾经的冲动。但您真的会发现您想扔掉的东西已经抛之脑后,而您想要得到的已经牢牢地捏在手心。

这就是您的宝藏。】

Thursday, June 6, 2013

【分享:王石尊敬的人——褚时健】

有人问深圳万科集团董事长王石:你最尊敬的企业家是谁?王石沉吟了一下,说出了一个人的名字。不是全球巨富巴菲特、比尔.盖茨或李嘉诚,也不是房地产界的某位成功人士,而是一个老人,一个跌倒过并且跌得很惨的人。

他担任一家小厂的厂长后,曾经是位英雄,披荆斩棘,以非凡的胆识和能力,用18年的拼搏,使这家小厂成长为每年利税991亿元的大型集团,一时求他写条子批烟的人络绎不绝。然而,他辉煌的人生之路在他71岁时偏离了航向,1999年他因贪污174万美元被判无期徒刑。

他的女儿在狱中自杀身亡。这对一个七十多岁的老人来说,应该是一生中摔得最重、跌得最惨的一跤。许多人认为他的这辈子完了。但是,这位老人并没有垮掉,他先是获得减刑,改为有期徒刑17年,2002年他因为严重的糖尿病获批保外就医,回到家中居住养病。按照我们的设想,他能在家颐养天年,就已经是最好的结局了。

然而他再次让人大跌眼镜:他承包了2000亩的荒山,开种果园!这时,他已经75岁,身体不好,要承包的荒山又刚经历过泥石流的洗礼,村民都说那是个鸟不拉屎的地方。

这些困难并没有阻挡他的“疯狂”行为,他带着妻子进驻荒山,昔日的企业家成为一个地道的农民。几年的时间,他用努力和汗水把荒山变成果园,而且他种的冰糖脐橙在云南1公斤8块钱你都买不到,原来这些产品一采摘就运往深圳、北京、上海等大城市,效益惊人。

这一年,爱好爬山的王石来到了云南,特意抽时间去看望他,他看到了一个面色黝黑但健康开朗的农民。他向王石介绍的都是果园、气温、果苗的长势。言谈之间,他自然地谈到了一个核心的问题:2000亩的荒山如何管理?

他使用了以前的方法,采用和果农互利的办法。他给每棵树都定了标准,产量上他定个数,说收多少果子就收多少,因为太多会影响果子的质量。这样一来,果农一见到差点儿的果子就主动摘掉,从不以次充好。他制定了激励机制:一个农民只要任务完成,就能领上4000块钱,年终奖金2000多块,一个农民一年能领到一万多块钱,一户三个人,就能收入三四万块钱,比到外面打工挣钱还多。

他管理烟厂时,想到烟厂上班的人挤破头,现在管理果园,想到果园干活的人也挤破头。这个已经80岁的老人,把跌倒当成了爬起,面对人生的波澜,他流过泪,但又一次点燃希望之火,用心过日子,将日子过得红红火火,让周围的人幸福快乐。

他就是红塔集团前掌门人褚时健。他把一个很小型的玉溪烟厂,办成了可以和进口洋烟抗衡,每年创造200亿税收的大型集团。

王石感慨地说,我得知他保外就医后,就专程到云南山区探访他。他居然承包了2000亩山地种橙子,橙子挂果要6年,他那时已经是75岁的老人了,你想像一下,一个75岁的老人,戴着一个大墨镜,穿着破圆领衫,兴致勃勃地跟我谈论橙子挂果是什么情景。2000亩橙园和当地的村寨结合起来,带有扶贫的性质;而且用沼气作肥料,环保且原生态。他的那种淡定,让他作为企业家的气质和胸怀呼之欲出。我当时就想,如果我在他那个年纪遇到挫折,我一定不会像他那样,而是在一个岛上,远离城市,离群独居。

王石的感慨,褚时健并没有听到。他在红塔集团时带的三个徒弟,现在已是红河烟厂、曲靖烟厂、云南中烟集团的掌门人,但这一切与他无关,对他来说,他在曾经的辉煌中跌倒,但在跌倒后又一次创造神话,这就足够了。我们都曾失败过,是一蹶不振还是再次站起,褚时健这个最富争议的人物,给了我们一个答案。

衡量一个人成功的标志,不是看他登到顶峰的高度,而是看他跌到低谷的反弹力。——巴顿将军

Friday, July 27, 2012

10 Ways to Chase a New Direction in Your Life

Since graduating from high school, I have spent the last fourteen years on the “right track” for my big transition into adulthood.
I moved out, went to college, found a good job, and bought a house. I did everything I was expected to do. I worked long hours, chasing promotions and raises I didn’t care about. I dutifully planted myself in front of the television in the rare moments I was home, and filled my existence with all the normal stuff of modern life—debt, clutter and stress.
I just wanted my parents to be proud of me. So I chased what I had been told success looked like. Instead of finding what I was searching for, I discovered a constant stream of excess—too much work, too much stress, too much stuff—and I was drowning in it.
In the stillness of the night, blanketed by the never-ending comfort of darkness, I would begin to dream about the life I wanted to live. One filled with joy and peacefulness where I was doing work that mattered to me, pouring my energy into those I loved, and had the space to just breathe—pretty much the complete opposite of my current existence.
But instead of chasing the life I dreamed of, I kept chasing the one I didn’t want. I was scared of changing direction, scared of challenging what I had been taught to desire in life, and even more terrified by the idea of actually getting to live the life I dreamed about.

What life are you chasing?

When I started thinking about the changes that would need to happen in order for me to transition from one life to the other, the fears within me started to multiply. I thought about things like:
  • How do I go about changing?
  • What if I can’t do it?
  • What if I don’t like the things I thought I did?
  • How can I support myself and do this?
  • Am I too far along in life to even entertain the idea of changing it?
  • How can I just walk away from the “security” I have now?
The mere idea of change can be one of the scariest realities we face. When you are standing on the cusp, you have to dig deep within yourself to find ways to overcome the fear, doubt and worry. There is no one solution that works for everyone. It will be a lot of trial and error as you find your way along, but the more actions you take the more the confidence you gain.
You aren’t going to start out with all the right answers, or even a complete picture of where you want to end up. But I suspect, in the stillness of the night, that voice speaks to you loud and clear about the life you know you want to be living.

Here are 10 ways to help you start chasing a new direction:

1. Get clear about what you want. A boat that wanders aimlessly never reaches the shore. You need to have some direction to help guide you along the way. Some people start out with a complete picture, while others identify one or two things they want to change right now. Either way, you need to get clear about where you are going.

2. Start small. A danger zone exists when you get clear about where you want to be. You start to feel excited about the life you want to live, and then you try to change everything at once. You get exhausted, and you give up. Don’t set yourself up for falling back into your old life. Start with the smallest action you can take today and just do that.

3. Focus on what not how. If you continually focus on how you are going to accomplish massive transitions in your life, you will never begin taking those small actions. When you think about how, your mind can come up with all sorts of scenarios where you don’t reach the goal. This is not what you need to focus on. None of this matters today. Worrying about a future that will most likely never come to pass is a waste of both your time and energy.
Put your focus where it matters most—what do you want for your life? Once you focus on the what, and start taking those small actions, the how will take care of itself.

4. Don’t think about how long it has been this way. I spent fourteen years working on my professional career, before I left it behind to write and run my own business. I spent twenty-three years overweight before I lost that first pound. Now I spend every day writing and running my own business. And to date, I have lost over 108 pounds.
It does not matter how long things have been this way in your life, today is the day that you can start to change. It just takes your unwavering commitment and one small action. Then repeat this step again tomorrow.

5. Create accountability for yourself. You cannot do this alone. (Trust me, I thought I could too!) You need people who know and support your efforts to keep you on track in this process. You need accountability that tomorrow you are going to keep pushing forward. You need people you can rely on when the going gets tough (because it will, that’s just life). You need someone to help you see things in a different way, to call you out on your excuses, and to keep you going when you’d rather give up.
Build yourself a support system, and let those who would question or undermine your efforts go along their way.

6. Don’t give in to the negative self-talk. My brain has this amazing talent wherein no matter what I do, it can point out all the ways in which I have failed. It tries desperately to convince me that I shouldn’t keep going; that it just wants me to be safe.
Phooey! That inner dialogue is what is keeping you stuck in the first place. You are in control of your mind, not the other way around. Choose to look at things in a different perspective. Choose to keep your options open and your dreams alive. When the negative discussion starts, choose to be stronger than your thoughts.

7. Open yourself to possibility. If you close yourself off to the world, you are going to miss a lot of amazing things. Part of this process is allowing those past pains, those old mindsets and preconceived notions go. You need to create a sort of blank slate within yourself to begin reconstructing how you see the world.

8. Be willing to let things go. One of the biggest gifts you can give yourself in this process is freedom. By releasing the burden of your stuff, you will find that there is plenty of time and space to create the life you want to live.
Clearing out the physical clutter in your personal space is a great place to start. Take it 15 minutes at a time, room by room. Start with small actions and get the momentum building. This doesn’t just apply to our physical possessions, but our emotional ones as well. Focus on the number of commitments you have in your life, the things you feel that you have to do. Start thinking about all the stuff in your life, and what you can do to begin clearing it away.

9. Take care of yourself first. In the never-ending race we have created out of our lives, the first person we always neglect is ourselves. You can’t wait for the world to quiet down before you start focusing on your own well-being. Keeping such a frantic pace only leaves you exhausted and not of much use to the people depending on you. To be of great service to others, you must first take care of yourself.

10. Stop and reflect along the way. When you start implementing the first nine points on this list, you may find yourself caught in the momentum of change. Time passes quickly in our lives, and as we grow and change so too does our vision of the life we want to live. Make sure that you take time to simply reflect on what you have accomplished, where you are at right now, and where you are headed—then plan some small action steps for tomorrow.

Thursday, July 26, 2012

吕布:刘备是个真君子,受如此大辱,却平静如水,可敬可佩啊!我都觉得有点对不住他了。吕布军师陈宫:难道你不觉得刘备可敬可佩之外,更有些可怕吗?徐州城本是刘备的根据之地,将军趁其不备据为己有。任何人受到这种奇耻大辱,都是万难忍受的,可是刘备呢?没有一句怨言,替将军去看守徐州的北大门去了。什么样的人才能做到这样忍耻含愤,平静如水呢?能够若此这般者,是何等的心胸和志向,这种人不可怕吗?

Monday, July 23, 2012

The Drive Of Life - 我們受傷~我們越強~風浪~打造夢想希望我的人生沒遺憾



歲月風雲


李:沒什麼 經得起苦楚
轉折變化不怕多
恨什麼 真心去愛過
不要計較怎結果
周:怕什麼 皮膚都擦破
還有心中的烈火
至少我 看到特別多
風景沒白白錯過
李:日出 照舊 天空這樣藍
煙花最暫 亦燦爛
周:我們受傷 我們越強
風浪 打造夢想
希望我的人生沒遺憾

李:人長久 幾多的風波
歡笑總比苦澀多
話別中 幾多對與錯
轉載來自 ※Mojim.com 魔鏡歌詞網
想你開心比我多
周:沒月亮 讓星光閃爍
還有你曾經愛我
沒後悔 只是有時候
免不了有點寂寞
李:日出 照舊(周:我往前走)
李:天空這樣藍(周:天色多藍)
李:煙花最暫 亦燦爛(周:花火縱然是短暫也燦爛)
周:我們受傷 我們越強(李:成敗之間)
周:風浪 打造夢想(李:談笑之間)
周:希望我的人生沒遺憾(李:平常看聚散)
合:我們受傷 我們越強
風浪 打造夢想
希望我的人生沒遺憾

Saturday, July 14, 2012

感恩的心 欧阳菲菲




我来自偶然像一颗尘土
有谁看出我的脆弱
我来自何方我情归何处
谁在下一刻呼唤我

天地虽宽这条路却难走
我看遍这人间坎坷辛苦
我还有多少爱我还有多少泪
要苍天知道我不认输

感恩的心感谢有你
伴我一生让我有勇气作我自己
感恩的心感谢命运
花开花落我一样会珍惜

我来自偶然像一颗尘土
有谁看出我的脆弱
我来自何方我情归何处
谁在下一刻呼唤我

天地虽宽这条路却难走
我看遍这人间坎坷辛苦
我还有多少爱我还有多少泪
要苍天知道我不认输

感恩的心感谢有你
伴我一生让我有勇气作我自己
感恩的心感谢命运
花开花落我一样会珍惜
感恩的心感谢有你
伴我一生让我有勇气作我自己
感恩的心感谢命运
花开花落我一样会珍惜

~KLIA~

~KLIA~