tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40980805940644796182024-03-05T23:12:29.526-08:00~Life's just beautiful~Whatever you strive for in life, one thing remains the same, one important thing, that is, you must be willing to open your heart to others; the funny thing abt the heart is that the more you opens yours up the more it fills, it fills with power, more power than one has ever seen that makes miracles happen.Ruihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04080285668442669515noreply@blogger.comBlogger91125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4098080594064479618.post-667723599114269712014-05-12T09:42:00.001-07:002014-05-12T19:38:49.922-07:00宝藏<div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhc9jwzyNMpM4YCASHk1Bqcf6-o_a7SjlTNdw3Ot3qRQyvzA5clFWFaTrf32BsybHbgW-O1A7NSuz8p9DnlCFSqdL3D6_sRnO51H4wXQiPuosBWwGVCkFnZtjfltSw0VYOOIAO0vsR9C9ZP/s640/blogger-image--1104652955.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><font color="#000000"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhc9jwzyNMpM4YCASHk1Bqcf6-o_a7SjlTNdw3Ot3qRQyvzA5clFWFaTrf32BsybHbgW-O1A7NSuz8p9DnlCFSqdL3D6_sRnO51H4wXQiPuosBWwGVCkFnZtjfltSw0VYOOIAO0vsR9C9ZP/s640/blogger-image--1104652955.jpg"></font></a></div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">有一个回乡度假的年轻人,听说离乡不远的山上有个一宝藏,但很多人说这只是个谣言。年轻人心想,尝试一下也没什么损失,况且如果真的有宝藏,他便可以让家人过上更美好的生活。</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">第二天一早,年轻人兴奋十足的往宝山前进。路上有一条大河,河水并不清澈,年轻人看不见河里到底有什么。年轻人准备跳下去时突然听见有人叫住他,年轻人转过身看见一个身穿黑衣的陌生小伙子站在他身边。年轻人好奇的看着黑衣小伙子。</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">"河里有鳄鱼,你还没游过去就会被吃掉了。"黑衣小伙子说到。</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">年轻人想了想便问"你怎么知道呢?你看过吗?"</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">黑衣小伙子回应"我没看过,可是有所耳闻"</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">年轻人心里有些不甘。黑衣小伙子继续"如果为了一些不知道是否存在地宝藏白白断送宝贵的生命,那有多可惜啊!"</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">年轻人听了觉得有道理。年轻人深怕河里藏着饥饿的鳄鱼,可是却很想得到宝藏,在河边看着对面的宝山心里开始起了矛盾,到底该勇敢地游过去还是就此放弃?</span></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgPB9M3Tt_0KqnWH3lZQLDumTtC1-YLrujAbn_z7EczAI84OBsAeQPYYOIeXP9qIrNFNtq4Xq1zYzIQMDhuaqBrftbtciTZaQTVryMNworff5LfhPngk2aP-vFcPO1Mi3KmJ3d86FvmdR_v/s640/blogger-image--549799848.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><font color="#000000"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgPB9M3Tt_0KqnWH3lZQLDumTtC1-YLrujAbn_z7EczAI84OBsAeQPYYOIeXP9qIrNFNtq4Xq1zYzIQMDhuaqBrftbtciTZaQTVryMNworff5LfhPngk2aP-vFcPO1Mi3KmJ3d86FvmdR_v/s640/blogger-image--549799848.jpg"></font></a></div></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">年轻人纠结了很久,天色渐渐暗起来,年轻人也慢慢的放下了登山的念头。年轻人感谢黑衣小伙子,并且和他交上朋友。原来黑衣小伙子性工名叫凡心。在离别时年轻人再次感谢凡心的友好提醒。</span></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjUx3nCZEzWvsAkff7AIJAjnwy71MnY8IC855rvvY9emTe5b1feCWtAGt64OqsLzB6XUBUlO4FBJdzCV64zub9du88cJZB5xcDrRU4Vtzk4eUYDUSjczVKUaIipMx83tSEILf0dXECuMdqI/s640/blogger-image--1702304309.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><font color="#000000"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjUx3nCZEzWvsAkff7AIJAjnwy71MnY8IC855rvvY9emTe5b1feCWtAGt64OqsLzB6XUBUlO4FBJdzCV64zub9du88cJZB5xcDrRU4Vtzk4eUYDUSjczVKUaIipMx83tSEILf0dXECuMdqI/s640/blogger-image--1702304309.jpg"></font></a></div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">回家路上,年轻人内心深处觉得非常惋惜和遗憾,一不留神碰到地上的石头摔倒了,这时一位留着小胡子的叔叔把他扶起。</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">"没事吧年轻人?怎么一个人到这地方来?"</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">年轻人摇摇头地感谢那位叔叔,并把他充满希望地往山上去直到绝望的故事告诉那叔叔。</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">胡子叔叔微笑这说"年轻人啊,如果河里没鳄鱼,那你还游不游呢?"</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">年轻人二话不说的点头,然后说到,"当然游!"</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">胡子叔叔认真地看着年轻人那泪汪汪的眼眶,小声的说,"年轻人、叔叔告诉你、其实河里并没有鳄鱼,只有小鱼和青蛙,你可以很安全和放心的游过去"</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">年轻人冷了一下,回神便说"怎么可能?凡心告诉我说河里有鳄鱼啊!我凭什么相信你?"</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">胡子叔叔微笑着说"那你为什么相信凡心呢?"</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">年轻人回答"因为他说很多人都是这么说的!"</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">胡子叔叔继续"你想想,如果河里真的有什么鳄鱼的话那为什么会有人成功的到达宝山,并且安然无恙的回来呢?"</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">年轻人想了想觉得胡子叔叔说得也有道理,仿佛黑暗的世界里突然出现了一道光芒,一丝希望。胡子叔叔看见年轻人开始有信心后说到,"follow your heart.跟着感觉去走吧。"说完后他就和年轻人道别。年轻人看着胡子叔叔的背影,叫到"谢谢你叔叔!"</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjUZI7iTtSRwwkfJjMdnMNoOcCZVICaPuVMMa3J7Aoy4wLE8LTS20crZTAoWni_aPDDAjreffSP-yBzVujr1vsV7AhXZ9RrtdoJVfbizzKnLVxTt6LRgJZQOrAMSl3r7hjLlK5yJ46Qod81/s640/blogger-image--567963783.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><font color="#000000"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjUZI7iTtSRwwkfJjMdnMNoOcCZVICaPuVMMa3J7Aoy4wLE8LTS20crZTAoWni_aPDDAjreffSP-yBzVujr1vsV7AhXZ9RrtdoJVfbizzKnLVxTt6LRgJZQOrAMSl3r7hjLlK5yJ46Qod81/s640/blogger-image--567963783.jpg"></font></a></div></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">当天晚上年轻人无法入眠,一直纠结到底游还是不游。夜深人静时年轻人静下心来思考。"如果河里真的有鳄鱼,那其他人怎么可能过得去呢?一定时我想太多了!好吧,明天一定要游过去!"</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">隔天一早年轻人走到河边,脑海不停回想凡心的劝告,害怕河里真的有鳄鱼。年轻人纠结了一会儿后看见河边有些树枝,顺手拾了一支较大较粗的树枝,把它扔进河里。年轻人看了看,河里没什么动静,便什么都不想的跳进河里,开始游了过去。</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">刚游不久,年轻人听见后面传来熟悉的声音,回头一看,原来是凡心。凡心不停劝年轻人赶快回头,不然游到河中央时鳄鱼就会出现了!年轻人往前看见仿佛被光芒围绕这的宝山,突然想起了胡子叔叔的一句话,"Follow your heart!"。年轻人二话不说的把眼睛闭上,继续往前游。凡心不断的在河边劝年轻人赶快回头,不然就来不及了!年轻人咬紧牙关把眼睛闭得更紧,一心只想着宝山,想着能够让家人过上更好的生活,凭着这股力量,和胡子叔叔的支持,年轻人终于游到达岸边。</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjIS2uhvyCOzoHWFxOFTCbfI4KlNrBZgiu9Zt310R7M2dl0LwkVYnuTayNRJGmIyq3q6IJRy-ga0kh-v2Np_1OPOs4dtkR8Y4A0FQnjyDP7QdiJ0RUmEafDVGDtdY88dPApYW0Q54SRLMFC/s640/blogger-image-1535882711.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><font color="#000000"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjIS2uhvyCOzoHWFxOFTCbfI4KlNrBZgiu9Zt310R7M2dl0LwkVYnuTayNRJGmIyq3q6IJRy-ga0kh-v2Np_1OPOs4dtkR8Y4A0FQnjyDP7QdiJ0RUmEafDVGDtdY88dPApYW0Q54SRLMFC/s640/blogger-image-1535882711.jpg"></font></a></div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">上岸后年轻人欣慰得回头看,发现凡心已经不在了。年轻人继续前进,终于抵达了目的地。年轻人看见山脚上有块沾满青苔的大石头,上面刻了一些字。年轻人向前去看看,石头上刻着,</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">【恭喜您!这就是您找寻的宝藏。】</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">年轻人有些愤怒,感觉有些受骗。用力的踢了踢那块大石。大石上的一些青苔掉了下了,青苔后面刻着一些字,年轻人把挡字的青苔拿掉,仔细的看了看,上面写着,</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">【您过河时其实需要经过3个不同的考验,</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">第一关叫希望</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">第一天当您正想过河时,突然有个叫工凡心的人出现阻止,让您无法过河,它其实就是您内心的恐惧。当您正想放弃念头,走回家路上出现了一个留着胡子的叔叔让您重见光明,它就是希望。当晚您冷静的去衡量内心的恐惧和希望,最后是希望把您再一次带到了河边。</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">第二关叫勇气</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">当您再次来到河边时,恐惧不停在您脑海出现,让您感到害怕,这时的您拿出了勇气,二话不说的跳进河里。</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">第三关叫坚持</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">当您游了不一会儿,凡心不停劝您放弃,这时的您专注于目标,坚持信念,勇往直前,终于抵达对岸。</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">这三关就是这次路途中所寻找的宝藏,看透它,它便能够让您受益一生。</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">那条大河代表着您人生中遇到的各种抗,有时您败给了恐惧,有时候您成功跳过去。当您败给了恐惧,您就永远停滞不前,无法突破。但是,当您一担跳过那道抗时,您会发现有些幻想了很久的东西并不象幻想那样,既不美好,也不可怕。跳过眼前的那一道坎,强烈的念想也许只剩下曾经的冲动。但您真的会发现您想扔掉的东西已经抛之脑后,而您想要得到的已经牢牢地捏在手心。</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">这就是您的宝藏。】</span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh2Lvy7mtL8dnEoGY2XMvfGfeWyldMMXpS_jtaFvYe2L7RIyFKsgXWO46GBDtbtOfQPtE5TBmzimheHGWcm4WEmxXPd2YE0Z0SlZHAuIlwNUlMe-XuVRRzEw-0eS1kZP_rDSqs0VpsYJL7Y/s640/blogger-image--1378204092.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><font color="#000000"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh2Lvy7mtL8dnEoGY2XMvfGfeWyldMMXpS_jtaFvYe2L7RIyFKsgXWO46GBDtbtOfQPtE5TBmzimheHGWcm4WEmxXPd2YE0Z0SlZHAuIlwNUlMe-XuVRRzEw-0eS1kZP_rDSqs0VpsYJL7Y/s640/blogger-image--1378204092.jpg"></font></a></div></div>Ruihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04080285668442669515noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4098080594064479618.post-36284615768507352112013-06-06T09:15:00.001-07:002013-06-06T09:15:55.799-07:00【分享:王石尊敬的人——褚时健】<br />
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有人问深圳万科集团董事长王石:你最尊敬的企业家是谁?王石沉吟了一下,说出了一个人的名字。不是全球巨富巴菲特、比尔.盖茨或李嘉诚,也不是房地产界的某位成功人士,而是一个老人,一个跌倒过并且跌得很惨的人。<br />
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他担任一家小厂的厂长后,曾经是位英雄,披荆斩棘,以非凡的胆识和能力,用18年的拼搏,使这家小厂成长为每年利税991亿元的大型集团,一时求他写条子批烟的人络绎不绝。然而,他辉煌的人生之路在他71岁时偏离了航向,1999年他因贪污174万美元被判无期徒刑。<br />
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他的女儿在狱中自杀身亡。这对一个七十多岁的老人来说,应该是一生中摔得最重、跌得最惨的一跤。许多人认为他的这辈子完了。但是,这位老人并没有垮掉,他先是获得减刑,改为有期徒刑17年,2002年他因为严重的糖尿病获批保外就医,回到家中居住养病。按照我们的设想,他能在家颐养天年,就已经是最好的结局了。<br />
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然而他再次让人大跌眼镜:他承包了2000亩的荒山,开种果园!这时,他已经75岁,身体不好,要承包的荒山又刚经历过泥石流的洗礼,村民都说那是个鸟不拉屎的地方。<br />
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这些困难并没有阻挡他的“疯狂”行为,他带着妻子进驻荒山,昔日的企业家成为一个地道的农民。几年的时间,他用努力和汗水把荒山变成果园,而且他种的冰糖脐橙在云南1公斤8块钱你都买不到,原来这些产品一采摘就运往深圳、北京、上海等大城市,效益惊人。<br />
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这一年,爱好爬山的王石来到了云南,特意抽时间去看望他,他看到了一个面色黝黑但健康开朗的农民。他向王石介绍的都是果园、气温、果苗的长势。言谈之间,他自然地谈到了一个核心的问题:2000亩的荒山如何管理?<br />
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他使用了以前的方法,采用和果农互利的办法。他给每棵树都定了标准,产量上他定个数,说收多少果子就收多少,因为太多会影响果子的质量。这样一来,果农一见到差点儿的果子就主动摘掉,从不以次充好。他制定了激励机制:一个农民只要任务完成,就能领上4000块钱,年终奖金2000多块,一个农民一年能领到一万多块钱,一户三个人,就能收入三四万块钱,比到外面打工挣钱还多。<br />
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他管理烟厂时,想到烟厂上班的人挤破头,现在管理果园,想到果园干活的人也挤破头。这个已经80岁的老人,把跌倒当成了爬起,面对人生的波澜,他流过泪,但又一次点燃希望之火,用心过日子,将日子过得红红火火,让周围的人幸福快乐。<br />
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他就是红塔集团前掌门人褚时健。他把一个很小型的玉溪烟厂,办成了可以和进口洋烟抗衡,每年创造200亿税收的大型集团。<br />
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王石感慨地说,我得知他保外就医后,就专程到云南山区探访他。他居然承包了2000亩山地种橙子,橙子挂果要6年,他那时已经是75岁的老人了,你想像一下,一个75岁的老人,戴着一个大墨镜,穿着破圆领衫,兴致勃勃地跟我谈论橙子挂果是什么情景。2000亩橙园和当地的村寨结合起来,带有扶贫的性质;而且用沼气作肥料,环保且原生态。他的那种淡定,让他作为企业家的气质和胸怀呼之欲出。我当时就想,如果我在他那个年纪遇到挫折,我一定不会像他那样,而是在一个岛上,远离城市,离群独居。<br />
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王石的感慨,褚时健并没有听到。他在红塔集团时带的三个徒弟,现在已是红河烟厂、曲靖烟厂、云南中烟集团的掌门人,但这一切与他无关,对他来说,他在曾经的辉煌中跌倒,但在跌倒后又一次创造神话,这就足够了。我们都曾失败过,是一蹶不振还是再次站起,褚时健这个最富争议的人物,给了我们一个答案。<br />
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衡量一个人成功的标志,不是看他登到顶峰的高度,而是看他跌到低谷的反弹力。——巴顿将军Ruihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04080285668442669515noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4098080594064479618.post-72915474798982517552012-07-27T23:10:00.002-07:002012-07-27T23:10:46.562-07:0010 Ways to Chase a New Direction in Your LifeSince graduating from high school, I have spent the last fourteen years on the “right track” for my big transition into adulthood.<br />
I moved out, went to college, found a good job, and bought a house. I did everything I was expected to do. I worked long hours, chasing promotions and raises I didn’t care about. I dutifully <a href="http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/the-5-step-process-to-complete-tv-elimination/">planted myself in front of the television</a> in the rare moments I was home, and filled my existence with all the normal <em>stuff</em> of modern life—debt, clutter and stress.<br />
I just wanted my parents to be proud of me. So I chased what I had been told success looked like. Instead of finding what I was searching for, I discovered a constant stream of excess—too much work, too much stress, too much stuff—and I was drowning in it.<span id="more-5694"></span><br />
In the stillness of the night, blanketed by the never-ending comfort of darkness, I would begin to dream about the life I wanted to live. One filled with joy and peacefulness where I was doing work that mattered to me, pouring my energy into those I loved, and had the space to just breathe—pretty much the complete opposite of my current existence.<br />
But instead of chasing the life I dreamed of, I kept chasing the one I didn’t want. I was scared of changing direction, scared of challenging what I had been taught to desire in life, and even more terrified by the idea of actually getting to live the life I dreamed about.<br />
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What life are you chasing?</h2>
When I started thinking about the changes that would need to happen in order for me to transition from one life to the other, <a href="http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/stop-saying-i-cant/">the fears within me started to multiply</a>. I thought about things like:<br />
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<li><em>How do I go about changing?</em></li>
<li><em>What if I can’t do it?</em></li>
<li><em>What if I don’t like the things I thought I did?</em></li>
<li><em>How can I support myself and do this?</em></li>
<li><em>Am I too far along in life to even entertain the idea of changing it?</em></li>
<li><em>How can I just walk away from the “security” I have now?</em></li>
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The <a href="http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/why-nothing-is-scarier-than-change/">mere idea of change can be one of the scariest realities we face</a>. When you are standing on the cusp, you have to dig deep within yourself to find ways to overcome the fear, doubt and worry. There is no one solution that works for everyone. It will be a lot of <a href="http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/4-tips-to-change-your-life-and-create-a-personal-revolution/">trial and error as you find your way along</a>, but the more actions you take the more the confidence you gain.<br />
You aren’t going to start out with all the right answers, or even a complete picture of where you want to end up. But I suspect, in the stillness of the night, that voice speaks to you loud and clear about the life you know you want to be living.<br />
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Here are 10 ways to help you start chasing a new direction:</h2>
1. <strong>Get clear about what you want.</strong> A boat that wanders aimlessly never reaches the shore. You need to have some direction to help guide you along the way. Some people start out with a complete picture, while others identify one or two things they want to change right now. Either way, <a href="http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/3-ways-to-let-your-soul-guide-you-listen-to-your-gut/">you need to get clear about where you are going</a>.<br />
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2. <strong>Start small. </strong>A danger zone exists when you get clear about where you want to be. You start to feel excited about the life you want to live, and then you try to change everything at once. You get exhausted, and you give up. Don’t set yourself up for falling back into your old life. Start with the smallest action you can take today and just do that.<br />
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3. <strong>Focus on what not how. </strong>If you continually focus on how you are going to accomplish massive transitions in your life, you will never begin taking those small actions. When you think about how, your mind can come up with all sorts of scenarios where you don’t reach the goal. This is not what you need to focus on. None of this matters today. <a href="http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/8-reasons-we-dont-do-things-we-should-and-how-to-break-the-mould/">Worrying about a future</a> that will most likely never come to pass is a waste of both your time and energy.<br />
Put your focus where it matters most—<em>what do you want for your life? </em>Once you focus on the what, and start taking those small actions, the how will take care of itself.<br />
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4. <strong>Don’t think about how long it has been this way.</strong> I spent fourteen years working on my professional career, before I left it behind to write and run my own business. I spent <a href="http://tradingpounds.com/2010/10/facing-the-reality-of-obesity/">twenty-three years overweight</a> before I lost that first pound. Now I spend every day writing and running my own business. And to date, I have lost over 108 pounds.<br />
It does not matter how long things have been this way in your life, today is the day that you can start to change. It just takes your unwavering commitment and one small action. Then repeat this step again tomorrow.<br />
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5. <strong>Create accountability for yourself. </strong>You cannot do this alone. (<em>Trust me, I thought I could too!</em>) You need people who know and support your efforts to keep you on track in this process. You need accountability that tomorrow you are going to keep pushing forward. You need people you can rely on when the going gets tough (<em>because it will, that’s just life</em>). You need someone to help you see things in a different way, to call you out on your excuses, and to keep you going when you’d rather give up.<br />
Build yourself a support system, and let those who would question or undermine your efforts go along their way.<br />
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6. <strong>Don’t give in to the negative self-talk.</strong> My <a href="http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/are-you-a-mental-slave-or-a-mental-master/">brain has this amazing talent</a> wherein no matter what I do, it can point out all the ways in which I have failed. It tries desperately to convince me that I shouldn’t keep going; that it just wants me to <em>be safe</em>.<br />
Phooey! That inner dialogue is what is keeping you stuck in the first place. You are in control of your mind, not the other way around. <a href="http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/its-all-about-attitude/">Choose to look at things in a different perspective</a>. Choose to keep your options open and your dreams alive. When the negative discussion starts, choose to be stronger than your thoughts.<br />
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7. <strong>Open yourself to possibility.</strong> If you close yourself off to the world, <a href="http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/20-ways-to-stretch-yourself/">you are going to miss a lot of amazing things</a>. Part of this process is allowing those past pains, those old mindsets and preconceived notions go. You need to create a sort of blank slate within yourself to begin reconstructing how you see the world.<br />
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8. <strong>Be willing to let things go.</strong> One of the biggest gifts you can give yourself in this process is freedom. By releasing the burden of your <em>stuff</em>, you will find that there is plenty of time and space to create the life you want to live.<br />
Clearing out the physical clutter in your personal space is a great place to start. Take it 15 minutes at a time, room by room. Start with small actions and get the momentum building. This doesn’t just apply to our physical possessions, but our emotional ones as well. Focus on the number of commitments you have in your life, the things you feel that you <em>have</em> to do. Start thinking about all <em>the stuff</em> in your life, and what you can do to begin clearing it away.<br />
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9. <strong>Take care of yourself first.</strong> In the never-ending race we have created out of our lives, the first person we always neglect is ourselves. You can’t wait for the world to quiet down before you <a href="http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/7-things-your-body-needs-right-now/">start focusing on your own well-being</a>. Keeping such a frantic pace only leaves you exhausted and not of much use to the people depending on you. To be of great service to others, you must first take care of yourself.<br />
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10. <strong>Stop and reflect along the way.</strong> When you start implementing the first nine points on this list, you may find yourself caught in the momentum of change. Time passes quickly in our lives, and as we grow and change so too does our vision of the life we want to live. Make sure that you take time to simply reflect on what you have accomplished, where you are at right now, and where you are headed—then plan some small action steps for tomorrow.Ruihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04080285668442669515noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4098080594064479618.post-14449940234727836372012-07-26T10:22:00.001-07:002012-07-26T10:22:25.722-07:00吕布:刘备是个真君子,受如此大辱,却平静如水,可敬可佩啊!我都觉得有点对不住他了。吕布军师陈宫:难道你不觉得刘备可敬可佩之外,更有些可怕吗?徐州城本是刘备的根据之地,将军趁其不备据为己有。任何人受到这种奇耻大辱,都是万难忍受的,可是刘备呢?没有一句怨言,替将军去看守徐州的北大门去了。什么样的人才能做到这样忍耻含愤,平静如水呢?能够若此这般者,是何等的心胸和志向,这种人不可怕吗?Ruihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04080285668442669515noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4098080594064479618.post-26041111759659089342012-07-24T22:52:00.001-07:002012-07-24T22:52:44.077-07:00天使為甚麼能夠飛?<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="270" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/OCmg7G9-XYU?fs=1" width="480"></iframe>Ruihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04080285668442669515noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4098080594064479618.post-75697734402629026002012-07-23T15:05:00.001-07:002012-07-23T15:05:09.773-07:00The Drive Of Life - 我們受傷~我們越強~風浪~打造夢想希望我的人生沒遺憾<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="344" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/dFwWJ9o16kk?fs=1" width="459"></iframe><br />
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歲月風雲<br />
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李:沒什麼 經得起苦楚<br />
轉折變化不怕多<br />
恨什麼 真心去愛過<br />
不要計較怎結果<br />
周:怕什麼 皮膚都擦破<br />
還有心中的烈火<br />
至少我 看到特別多<br />
風景沒白白錯過<br />
李:日出 照舊 天空這樣藍<br />
煙花最暫 亦燦爛<br />
周:我們受傷 我們越強<br />
風浪 打造夢想<br />
希望我的人生沒遺憾<br />
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李:人長久 幾多的風波<br />
歡笑總比苦澀多<br />
話別中 幾多對與錯<br />
轉載來自 <a href="http://tw.mojim.com/"><span style="color: black;">※Mojim.com 魔鏡歌詞網 </span></a><br />
想你開心比我多<br />
周:沒月亮 讓星光閃爍<br />
還有你曾經愛我<br />
沒後悔 只是有時候<br />
免不了有點寂寞<br />
李:日出 照舊(周:我往前走)<br />
李:天空這樣藍(周:天色多藍)<br />
李:煙花最暫 亦燦爛(周:花火縱然是短暫也燦爛)<br />
周:我們受傷 我們越強(李:成敗之間)<br />
周:風浪 打造夢想(李:談笑之間)<br />
周:希望我的人生沒遺憾(李:平常看聚散)<br />
合:<strong>我們受傷 我們越強<br />
風浪 打造夢想<br />
希望我的人生沒遺憾</strong></dd>Ruihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04080285668442669515noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4098080594064479618.post-71680193289342962202012-07-14T09:53:00.001-07:002012-07-14T09:53:06.616-07:00感恩的心 欧阳菲菲<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="344" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/bwNyUN22rXo?fs=1" width="459"></iframe><br />
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我来自偶然像一颗尘土<br />
有谁看出我的脆弱<br />
我来自何方我情归何处<br />
谁在下一刻呼唤我<br />
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天地虽宽这条路却难走<br />
我看遍这人间坎坷辛苦<br />
我还有多少爱我还有多少泪<br />
要苍天知道我不认输<br />
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感恩的心感谢有你<br />
伴我一生让我有勇气作我自己<br />
感恩的心感谢命运<br />
花开花落我一样会珍惜<br />
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我来自偶然像一颗尘土<br />
有谁看出我的脆弱<br />
我来自何方我情归何处<br />
谁在下一刻呼唤我<br />
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天地虽宽这条路却难走<br />
我看遍这人间坎坷辛苦<br />
我还有多少爱我还有多少泪<br />
要苍天知道我不认输<br />
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感恩的心感谢有你<br />
伴我一生让我有勇气作我自己<br />
感恩的心感谢命运<br />
花开花落我一样会珍惜<br />
感恩的心感谢有你<br />
伴我一生让我有勇气作我自己<br />
感恩的心感谢命运<br />
花开花落我一样会珍惜Ruihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04080285668442669515noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4098080594064479618.post-49274052003328136142012-06-28T20:26:00.003-07:002012-06-28T20:26:51.995-07:00提升自我的10个方法】1、每天读书<br />
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2、战胜你的恐惧<br />
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3、<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span><span>升级你的技能</span><br />
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<span>4、承认自己的缺点</span><br />
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<span>5、向你佩服的人学习</span><br />
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<span>6、</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span><span>培养一个新的习惯</span><br />
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<span>7、好好休息</span><br />
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<span>8、帮助他人</span><br />
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<span>9、让过去的过</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>去<br />
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10.从现在开始。Ruihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04080285668442669515noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4098080594064479618.post-76010477117196948762012-06-24T22:13:00.001-07:002012-06-24T22:13:01.049-07:00如果您還有夢<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="344" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/fhoH_2svSLo?fs=1" width="459"></iframe>Ruihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04080285668442669515noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4098080594064479618.post-44324747290686339332012-06-24T22:04:00.000-07:002012-06-24T22:04:43.466-07:00戰勝自己,才是命運的強者!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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我們永遠無法預知,在命運的十字路口,會發生什麼,但我們可以選擇,是就此放棄,還是忍痛前行。奔向夢想的終點,即便沒有勝利的獎牌,但尊嚴和驕傲,將與我們一路同行。通<wbr></wbr>往成功的跑道上,只有快慢之別,並無勝負之分。戰勝對手,只是人生的贏家,戰勝自己,才是命運的強者!Ruihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04080285668442669515noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4098080594064479618.post-13171098634784754032012-06-24T02:27:00.000-07:002012-06-24T02:27:31.747-07:00How to forgiveOne of the thorniest and most difficult things we humans are ever called upon to do is to respond to evil with kindness, and to forgive the unforgivable. We love to read stories about people who have responded to hatred with love, but when that very thing is demanded of us personally, our default seems to be anger, angst (dread or anguish), depression, righteousness, hatred, etc. Yet study after study shows that one of the keys to longevity and good health is to develop a habit of gratitude and let go of past hurts.<br />
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<br /><br />Want to live a long, happy life? Forgive the unforgivable. It really is the kindest thing you can do for yourself. Your enemy may not deserve to be forgiven for all the pain and sadness and suffering purposefully inflicted on your life, but <i>you</i> deserve to be free of this evil. As Ann Landers often said, "hate is like an acid. It damages the vessel in which it is stored, and destroys the vessel on which it is poured." Consider reading Alice Miller on forgiveness, or James Rubart's novel The Chair, which includes the themes of healing and forgiveness. <br />
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<b class="whb">Realize that the hate you feel toward your adversary does not harm him or her in the slightest</b>. Chances are, your enemy has gone on with life and hasn't given you another thought. "Resentment is like drinking poison and waiting for it to kill your enemy." spoken by Nelson Mandela.<div class="wh_ad">
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<b class="whb">Understand that the best revenge against your enemies is to live a successful and happy life</b>. Want to get even with someone who tried to destroy you? Show them and show yourself (and the world) that the obstacles they tried to create were not significant enough to disable you and/or destroy you.<div class="clearall">
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<b class="whb">Realize that the second best revenge is to turn the evil into something good, to find the proverbial silver lining in the dark cloud</b>. Think of your enemy as someone who has helped you to grow. Even though unfortunate things happen to us, the best thing we can do is take those opportunities as tests that will either destroy or strengthen us. If you've been <i>through</i> something, it didn't destroy you - take what you learned and become a better person because of it.</li>
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<b><b class="whb">Make a list of the good things that emerged as a result of this awful experience</b>.</b> You've probably focused long enough on the negative parts of this experience. Look at the problem from a completely new angle; look at the positive side. The first item on that list may be long overdue because you have focused on the negative for so long. See if you can identify 10 positive outcomes of this experience.<div class="clearall">
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<b class="whb">Look for the helpers</b>. Fred Rogers (Mr. Rogers) related that, as a little boy, he'd often become upset about major catastrophes in the news. His mother would tell him, "look for the helpers." In your own nightmarish experience, think back to the people who helped you. Think about their kindness and unselfishness. Practice what you have learned from them.<div class="clearall">
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<b class="whb">Look at the bigger picture</b>. Was someone your "Good Samaritan"? In this biblical story, a traveler happens to come across a poor soul who was beaten up on the road to Jericho and left for dead. It's a lot easier to play the part of the Good Samaritan than to be the poor soul who is left bleeding and bruised on the side of the road. Perhaps this isn't all about you. Perhaps your trial provided an opportunity for others to rise to an occasion to provide you with help and support.<div class="clearall">
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<b class="whb">Be compassionate with yourself</b>. If you've ruminated over this problem for a long time, steering this boat into a new direction could take some time, too. As you try to make a new path out of the dark woods of this old hurt, you'll make mistakes. Forgive yourself. Be patient and kind to yourself. Extreme emotional pain has a profound effect on the body. Give yourself time to heal - physically and emotionally. Eat well. Rest. Focus on the natural beauty in the world. Give yourself permission to feel the emotions and process them. Don't bottle up the pain.<div class="clearall">
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<b class="whb">Learn that the Aramaic word for "forgive" means literally to "untie</b>." The fastest way to free yourself from an enemy and all associated negativity is to forgive. Untie the bindings and loosen yourself from that person's ugliness. Your hatred has tied you to the person responsible for your pain. Your forgiveness enables you to start walking away from him or her and the pain. Forgiveness is for you and not the other party. Freeing yourself through forgiveness is like freeing yourself from chains of bondage or from prison.<div class="clearall">
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<b class="whb">Learn how to balance trust with wisdom</b>. It's a fact that <i>not all of our fellow humans are trustworthy</i>. Painful memories can serve to protect us from future hurts. As author Rose Sweet writes, "A lack of trust is sometimes simply recognizing another's limitations".<sup class="reference" id="_ref-0"><a href="http://www.wikihow.com/Forgive#_note-0" title="">[1]</a></sup><br /><br /><ul>
<li>Forgiveness is not acceptance of wrong behavior. If you must continue to interact with someone who has wronged you, who has offered a lame apology only to follow it up with more bad behavior, nothing requires you to trust such a person. This person isn't likely to ever be trustworthy -- you must keep a distance. While it's fruitless to torment yourself over this person's actions, you should not be his or her willing victim. Acknowledge; move on.<div class="clearall">
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<li>An offender who wants reconciliation must do his or her part: offer a sincere apology, promise not to repeat the offense (or similar ones), make amends, and give it time. If you don't see repentance, understand that according forgiveness to that person is a benefit to yourself, not to the offender.<div class="clearall">
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<li>Unless those who have harmed us have truly repented of whatever they have done, we need to use wisdom in avoiding repeating the hurt. This may require avoiding those who are unrepentant of the harm that they have inflicted upon us. It would be wise to balance forgiveness against the certain knowledge that evil exists, and some people enjoy harming others.<div class="clearall">
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<b class="whb">Stop telling "the story</b>." How many times this week did you tell "the story" about how badly you were hurt and how horribly you were wronged? How many times a day do you think about this hurt? It is a stake driven into the ground that keeps you from moving away from this hurt. Rather, forgive your enemy because it's the kindest thing you can do for your friends and family. Negativity is depressing - physically, mentally, spiritually and emotionally.<div class="clearall">
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<b class="whb">Tell "the story" from the other person's perspective</b>. Actually imagine that you are the other person (the one who offended you) and use the word "I" when saying what that person would say. You, most likely, don't know exactly what s/he was thinking when this event unfolded but pretend that you do, and just go with the story that comes up in your head. Sit down with a friend, or maybe even the person you are trying to forgive, and tell the story as though you are that person. It is important to do this verbally and not just in your head. Realize in advance that this is not an easy exercise, but it holds great power. Your willingness to tell the story from the offender's perspective requires an effort at forgiveness. Also, realize that this is not a contradiction to the preceding paragraph since this perspective will change <i>your</i> story.</li>
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<b><b class="whb">Retrain your thinking</b>.</b> When your enemy and his or her evil actions come to mind, <b>send him or her a blessing. Wish your enemy well</b>. Hope the best for him or her. This has two effects. One, it neutralizes that acid of hate that destroys the vessel in which it is stored. The evil we wish for another seems to have a rebound effect. The same is true for the good that we wish for another. When you make yourself able to return blessing for hatred, you'll know that you're well on the path to wholeness. The first 15 - or 150 - times you try this, the "blessing" may feel contrived, empty, and even hypocritical but keep trying. Eventually, it will become a new habit and soon thereafter, the anger and pain that has burned in your heart will evaporate, like dew in the morning sun. This technique forces your mind to overcome the cognitive dissonance between hating someone and acting with compassion toward him or her. Since there is no way to take back the kind gesture to agree with your hatred, the only thing your mind can do is change your belief about the person to match. You will begin to say to yourself, "S/he is deserving of a blessing, and indeed, must need one very much."<div class="clearall">
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一位白髮蒼蒼的老教授在學生畢業的最後一節課時說:「這<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span><span>是我給你們上最後一堂課了,這是一堂簡單的實驗課,也是</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span><span>一堂深奧的實驗課,我希望你們以後能永遠記住這最後一堂</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>課。」<br /> <br /><span> 教授說著,取出一個玻璃容器,又注入了半容器清水。教授</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>把盛水的容器放進一旁的冰櫃說:「現在我們將它製冷。」<br /> <br /><span class="text_exposed_hide">...</span><span class="text_exposed_show"><span> 過了一會兒,容器取出來了,裡面的水凝結成了晶瑩剔透的</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>冰。<br /><span> 教授說:「0℃以下,這些水就成了冰,冰是水的另一種形</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>態,但水成了冰,它就不能流動了。」<br /> <br /><span> 「現在,我們來看水的第三種形態。」教授邊說邊把盛冰的</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>玻璃容器放在酒精爐上,並點燃了酒精爐。<br /> <br /><span> 過了一會兒,冰漸漸溶化成了水,後來水被燒沸了,咕咕嘟</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span><span>嘟地翻騰出一縷縷乳白色的水蒸氣,在實驗室裡靜靜地氤氳</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>著、瀰漫著。過了沒多久,容器裡的水蒸發乾了。<br /> <br /><span> 教授關掉酒精爐,讓同學們一個個驗看玻璃容器,說:「誰</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>能說出這些水到哪兒去了呢?」<br /> <br /><span> 學生盯著教授,他們不明白這最後一堂課,學識淵博的教授</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>為什麼給他們做這個最簡單的實驗。<br /> <br /><span> 教授看著那些不願回答這個問題的學生說:「水哪裡去了呢</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>?它們蒸發進空氣裡,融進藍藍的遼闊無邊的天空。」<br /> <br /><span> 教授微微頓了一頓又說:「你們可能都覺得這個實驗太簡單</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span><span>了,但是……」教授口氣一轉,嚴肅地說:「它並不是一個</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>簡單的實驗!」<br /> <br /><span> 教授瞅了一眼那些迷惑不解的學生說:「水有三種狀態,人</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span><span>生也有三種狀態。水的狀態是由溫度決定的,人生的狀態是</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>由自己心靈的溫度決定的。」<br /> <br /><span> 教授說:「假若一個人對生活和人生的溫度是 0℃以下,那麼這個人的生活狀態就會是冰,他的整個人生</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>境界也就不過他雙腳站的地方那麼大;<br /><span> 假若一個人對生活和人生抱平常的心態,那麼他就是一掬常</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>態下的水,他能奔流進大河、大海,但他永遠離不開大地;<br /><span> 假若一個人對生活和人生是 100℃的熾熱!那麼他就會成為水蒸氣,成為雲朵,他將</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span><span>飛起來,他不僅擁有大地,還能擁有天空,他的世界和宇宙</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>一樣大。」<br /> <br /><span> 教授微笑著望著他的學生們問:「明白這堂最簡單的實驗課</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span><span>了嗎?」「不,這不是一堂簡單的實驗課!」學生們異口同</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>聲地回答。<br /> <br /><span> 水的溫度靠火的加溫達到 100℃,而人心靈的溫度則靠正面的思考、樂觀的心、親</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span><span>友的關懷、溫柔體貼的心、對這世界的好奇心、勤奮努力等</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>等來加溫。<br /> <br /> 希望今天這篇文章能讓各位朋友們心的溫度升到滿滿的 100℃,讓您我的生活變的更多加采多姿。<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /> 生命常常要下很多種決定<br /> <br /> 但如果你不去試試<br /> <br /> 你從沒做過的事情(正當的事情)<br /> <br /> 一些不平凡的人生體驗不會發生<br /> <br /> 鼓勵從沒在閱讀留言過的你<br /> <br /> 試著說點話,讓世界看見你^^</span>Ruihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04080285668442669515noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4098080594064479618.post-49292876220458558562012-06-16T15:32:00.004-07:002012-06-16T15:32:49.684-07:00【給男人上一課】 智者講給男人長智慧<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<br /><br /><span> 智者說:男人最大的敵人,不是時間,不是權利,不是金錢,甚至不</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>是自己,而是女人和安於現狀。<br /> <br /> 智者說:除了自己的媽媽,和你<span class="text_exposed_hide">...</span><span class="text_exposed_show"><span>將來的老婆,誰也不值得你付出太多,為媽媽付出,因為媽媽給了你</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>上半輩子的愛,為你老婆付出,因為下半輩子的愛,將會是她來給。<br /> <br /><span> 智者說:可以讓你的敵人知道你喜歡誰,但不要讓他知道你愛上了誰</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span><span>,一旦這樣,不僅是你,你愛的女人都會有危險,這就是不能愛上女</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>人的原因。<br /> <br /><span> 智者說:男人過了10歲就不能再哭了,除非是你的至愛離你而去,</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>你可以流淚,不然,誰都不值得。<br /> <br /><span> 智者說:做什麼事都要講究代價,人不為己天誅地滅,做一件事,要</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span><span>想想自己有沒有利益,值不值得,做了你能得到什麼!至少,你不能</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>因為做了而失去什麼,這樣不值得。<br /> <br /><span> 智者說:你要是男人,就要做到一人做事一人當,義氣,豪氣,俠氣</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>,說話不能太軟,男兒膝下有黃金,什麼時候膝蓋都不能軟。<br /> <br /><span> 智者說:做人要低調,你就太高調,要知道槍打出頭鳥,多想想自己</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>出了頭,會遇到什麼問題。<br /> <br /><span> 智者說:男人要有擔當,每個男人身邊都要有一個圈,站在這個圈裡</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span><span>的人,才值得你用生命來守護,至於誰內誰外,就要看自己的本事了</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>。<br /> <br /><span> 智者說:無論你多麼富有,無論你在什麼地方,都要謙遜,禮貌,不</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span><span>卑不亢,虛心學習自己不會的,不懂得,只有這樣,你才能不斷進步</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>,爬上巔峰。<br /> <br /><span> 智者說:在父母百年彌留之際,你不要向他們保證自己有多富有,多</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span><span>有權利,但你要向他們保證,你已經具備了創造財富和得到權利的能</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>力,這樣,他們才放心。<br /> <br /><span> 智者說:打女人的男人不是男人,女人是用來疼的,不要讓你的女人</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>影響到你的事業,也不要讓你的事業影響的你的女人。<br /> <br /><span> 智者說:男人一個人在外闖蕩,受了再大的委屈,也不要放棄,不能</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>氣,要記,記在心裡,早晚有一天,讓他們全部連本帶利還回來。<br /> <br /><span> 智者說:不要做讓自己後悔的事,要做,就做讓別人後悔的事,一輩</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>子不長,如果盡活在回憶裡了,就廢了。<br /> <br /><span> 智者說:不要相信誓言,不要相信承諾,事實能證明一切,真正愛你</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>的人,不會給你太多的誓言和承諾。<br /> <br /><span> 智者說:別把自己看的太低,不如你的人多得是,別把自己看的太高</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span><span>,你不如的人多得是,你要做的,就是努力讓前者變多,後者變少。</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>色易守,情難防。</span><span class="text_exposed_hide"><span class="text_exposed_link"><a href="">See More</a></span></span></div>
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<br /> 什么样的想法什么样的生活。</div>
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<br /> 有学习才有选择权,没有知识,<br /><span class="text_exposed_hide">...</span><span class="text_exposed_show"> 也要有常识,没有常识,更要走进教室。 </span></div>
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<br /> 不是社会发展太快,是我们思维反应太慢,<br /> 为什么我们思维太慢,是我们没有跟上学习。</div>
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<br /> 人生有悲哀,其中之一是毕业以后不再学习。</div>
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<br /> 不是学打工的技术,而是学创业的本领。<br /> <br /> 思想观念40% +人际关系40% +专业能力20% <br /> =成功从这个公式里找自己的短处,<br /> <br /> 缺啥学啥,社会需要啥你就学啥,<br /> 不只是学感兴趣的,而是学有利于社会,有利于成功的。<br /> 人要有二亩田,白天是果腹的,晚上是耕种未来的。<br /> 不学习是21世纪被淘汰的八种人首选第一的人</div>
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In year 1988~ i desire to gain cooperation from more intellectuals~ <strong>owing to the fact that most of these universities students were demanding for nothing but the truth with supportive facts ~ (they were sharp and precise thinkers, were normally very stubborn and only glued onto their own ways of thinking)~ thus, it wasn’t easy to influence and lead these intellectuals~ </strong>since I was not as highly educated as they were~ and most of them will look down on people who are not educated~ I had trouble communicating with them even when obvious facts were presented.<br />
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,I strongly believe that Amway in the form of a private franchising business has a tremendous future and is definitely a golden opportunity to be grabbed~ however, <strong>even the most successful entrepreneurs and professionals don’t have the ability to commit themselves (they don’t have the wisdom to see through it~ and they don not have a vision into the future of theamazing business)~</strong> what more to say about the fresh graduates? ~ who only learnt from text books in school~ so how was it possible for them to own suchpowerful thoughts and abilities?~<br />
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Therefore~ in order to give them a clearer picture of life and for the sack of setting up a new life orientation for them in the shortest period of time~ I formulated <strong>a scientific theory in logical empiricism which comprises of different stages of life including education~ occupation and retirement</strong>~<strong> by applying <strong>the Law of Conservation of Mass~</strong></strong> ~ with our rapid evolution of this century~ the success of the conversion of 3 impactful eras ~ the flexibility of the 3 dimensional world~ And~ the powerful concepts applied in Maslow's law ~together they form ~ a clearer picture of the erupting future of Amway’s market~<br />
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<strong>Yet, after explaining to 2000+ strangers~ only 3 of them who scored averagely in class and were at that time, 19 years old, saw the potential of this business</strong>~ the 1st who joined wasa student from Tar College~ currently having a yearly business turnover of approximately 200 Million ringgit~ the 2nd to join was a student from an outstanding college who now owns a business volume of 20 million ringgit ~ the 3rd was from KDU college and is currently in possession of a monthly business volume that add up to 40k-50k ringgit~ <strong>23 years since then~ the other graduatesare mostly stuck in jobs and never had the guts to start up their own business~the small amount who did are being caught up in their small businesses~</strong><br />
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<strong>23 years ago~ spoke to 2000+ strangers about Maslow’s Law~ due to their age~ their youthful ignorance did not permit them to understand the message I intended to convey~ they didn’t have thevision~ the wisdom~ they never understood the very fundamental concept ofsuccess~ that is~ ~living in the future~ work hard now~~</strong><br />
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Years back, i shared this amazing concept of Maslow’s Law with over 2000 strangers~ and~ today, I shall review this hidden treasure to the public~~ The <strong>Maslow’s Law and The Hierarchy of Human Needs</strong> ~~<br />
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Alright, let’s start by analyzing our previous generation ~ our parents~<br />
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Were our parents working very hard back then? ~ They leave home early before dawn and reach home after the sun was swollen up by the western horizon~why do they have to work restlessly? ~ isn’t it obvious? They did it just tofight for an increment of their salary~ to use the money on investments on shares and properties ~to earn more money~ and eventually owns a passive income~ that can give them a sense of security in life~ However, due to the lack of sustainable capital, most of our parents did not achieve their initial goals~that is~ to earn~ a Passive Income~<br />
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And so, as days went by, they see little and no hope to realize their dreams ~~ they then saw a large portion of the intellectuals ~ living a better life as compared to them~and because humans are creatures which always hope for the best~ our parents finally came to a conclusion that education brings hope and served as a vehicle to a better lifestyle~ that is why when we were still a kid, our parents brought us to school without us even knowing why~ it’s because they knew that~ only through education~ our fate can be changed~ they knew that via good education, we can apply for a better position at work/job~and receive a higher pay~ at least, we weren’t following their footsteps that led them to misery~ thank goodness~<br />
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However,our educated friends doesn’t seem to be aware of the fact that they were slowly walking into a real world of the hierarchy of human needs of Maslow’s Law~ let’s begin our journey to investigate and discuss about the real life challenges a fresh graduate will face in the working society~<br />
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<strong>The lowest level in the pyramid of the hierarchy of human need (Maslow’s Law) is ~ The Basic Living Requirements</strong><br />
With the help of a certificate, a fresh graduate can easily apply for an 8 hours job and work for 20-25days ~ despite of all the hard work and effort they’ve put in, the company only pays them a salary in the range of rm1800-3200 ~ and that is how they meet their Basic Living Requirements~ which allows them to pay for all their basic necessity ~ ~<strong>90% of the fresh graduates are stuck in this very fundamental level of the hierarchy pyramid~ and eventually, they got used to the life of waiting~ waiting for their pay cheque~ waiting for an increment in salary~ waiting for their yearly bonuses~ </strong><br />
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There’re of course, some of them who refuse to be trapped in their lives, waiting for others to feed them~they desire a better lifestyle~ therefore, to full fill their needs~ <strong>let us introduce a new set of theory into the next level of the hierarchy pyramid~ this is an amazing physiological breakthrough of a research done by a very successful modern economist, S.W.LAW.</strong>~according to a success rule~ time=money ~as a result, apart from the 8 hours job we’ve discussed earlier, you will have to spend an additional of 2-4 hours a day in exchange of more money~ ~ perhaps this can be done by taking up some part time jobs like~ giving off tuition~ with the extra income you’ve earned, you may be enjoying the quality of life ~ however, do you wish to lose everything you’ve earned from all your hard work overnight? ~of course not! ~ And that is when you’re looking for a sense of security in life~ in fact, you’ll even start to invest~ or~ start purchasing insurance~ to comfort yourselves~<br />
<strong>Nevertheless~ you still ought to face 2 gigantic economic monsters~1~a Poisonous Cobra = Economy Crisis + 2~ a Fearful Beast= Inflation~~so, do you have any ways of beating them?</strong><br />
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<strong>But if you’re below the age of 20 or above the age of 60~ then there’s no need to worry~ because whatever that happens in the economical and social world has got nothing to do with you~ so you don’t have to worry about the arrival of The Great Depression~ or The Financial Crisis~ or The Stock Market Crashes and lead to the bankruptcy of many huge companies and~ business failure follow by a large layoffs~~yet, if you’re in the range of 20-60 years old~within 40 years, how many times of economic crisis do you think you’ll face? ~how many times will you be thrown out of a company?</strong><br />
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<strong>If you’re being laid off from work at the age of 30, you’ll most probably have the ability to stand up from that setback and start off again~ … but what if you’re asked to leave the company at the age of 40 when you are already at a high managing position?~ at 40 years old, you’ll probably have a bamboo tick on your shoulders ~with a huge bucket hanging at both its’ ends ~the 1st bucket will be you parent’s (who are at that time 60years old) medical fees~the 2nd bucket will be you children’s(age20) tuition fees~ these are the expenses which its’ fees will only increases and~ never goes down~~… not to forget about your family’s monthly expenses~ and the debts + mortgages + loans~on your car, house, insurance……..and the list goes on~</strong><br />
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Yet, we humans have only 2 choices in life~ we either work for others~ or~ start up a business~ <strong>for the employees, when The Great Depression strikes~ they’re forced to face the big layoffs~ and are powerless against these disastrous happenings~ of course~ the employers/business owners, shouldn’t expect to face anything less than the employees~ as their business volumes will most probably decrease under such critical crisis ~ it is impossible to control the market at this time~ ~S</strong>ince fresh graduates will sooner or later face these 2 monsters, and are unable to run away from them, so what’s the difference between the fresh graduates and their parents?~ they’re all stuck in the 2nd level of the hierarchy pyramid~ “security”~ <strong>with no escape ~ NO WAY OUT~ therefore, it’s pointless to talk about the higher levels of the Hierarchy Pyramid~</strong><br />
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<strong>The </strong><strong>hierarchy of human’s needs</strong><strong> of Maslow’s Law did not include~ the desire to live a better lifestyle~( It’s actually added by me—and I named it~ S.W.LAW )</strong><br />
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Back in those days, I encourage the intellectuals to continue on their 9 to 5 jobs/ studies~while <strong>converting ~the 2-4 hours which were used to create extra income for better lifestyle ~ into the opportunity offered by AMWAY Private Franchising Business`~ to slowly build up a Passive Income~~~that includes, a monthly performance bonus of 3%-21%~ earning from RM30.00 – RM4-5000.00~ which can provide us a better living quality~</strong><br />
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<strong>So~How can we overcome The Great Depression through AMWAY Private Franchising Business and by pass the 2nd level of the Hierarchy Pyramid~ “Security”?</strong><br />
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The answer lies in this term called~The “<strong>White Petroleum</strong>”~which means our daily necessities~ for example~ body wash, detergent, laundry, toothpaste, etc (white petroleum= a metaphor describing a substance/compound which produces White foam when reacted with water)~Besides, AMWAY Private Franchising Business also provide us with a <strong>4% leadership bonus/passive income~ that will free you from all unnecessary worries~ </strong><br />
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<strong>Next, we’ll talk about the 3rd and 4th level of the hierarchy pyramid~ “Love and belonging” ~ “A sense of Respect”</strong><br />
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When you’ve successfully build up the AMWAY Private Franchising Business up to a level called, Diamond, with the help of the Standard Operating Procedure (SOP) of a proven system, BWW~ you’ll be recognised and <strong>invited on an international stage provided by BWW and~ you’ll be given an opportunity to speak in stage~ through your own words~ your very own story~ you’ll be able to touch more lives~ and help many more to succeed~ your speech will put you in fame~ and thus, gives you a sense of respect from others~</strong><br />
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<strong>When you reach a level called, The Crown Ambassador through the SOP provided by BWW,~ you’ll receive an annual bonus that exceed a million ringgit~ and can reach up to billions~ this amount of money can definitely full fill the highest level of the Hierarchy Pyramid~ “ Realising your Dreams”~ where all your dreams can come true~ with this, you’ll have no regrets in life~</strong><br />
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<strong>In 1988, I analysed the potential and the future of AMWAY Private Franchising Business’s market with wisdom and a great vision~~the result came out to be just as I’d though~ by investing RM63.oo into the business back then~ which I had had a loss on the bank’s 3% interest (for withdrawing the money out from the bank)~ and in 2011, my business turnover has reach up to a total of 250million ringgit~</strong><br />
<strong>My business is the best evidence and it has overcome the Economy Crisis (E.C) in year 1997 and year2008~ with no loss~ only increment ~ </strong><br />
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<strong>In year 2008 (E.C) ~ my business volume reach up to RM176million </strong><br />
<strong>In year 2009~ RM206.53million </strong><br />
<strong>In year 2010~ RM217.34million </strong><br />
<strong>In year 2011~ RM250million</strong><br />
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<strong>The result matches my prediction done by my research~ analysis ~judgment~ and decision~ </strong><br />
<strong>the 2nd level in Maslow’s Law Hierarchy of Human Needs~ “Security”~ has stopped many of them who are still working/own a business from proceeding into the next level~ even some entrepreneurs are stuck in this level~ ~ I’ve escape this tragedy~ and I’m on my way towards ownership of “the love and belonging” and “a sense of respect”~</strong><strong> </strong><br />
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<strong>I’m grateful that I was able to think out of the box~</strong><br />
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<strong>I’m grateful that I did not study much~ didn’t have a sickness called “analysis paralysis”~</strong><br />
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<strong>I’m grateful that the world presented such a wonderful business opportunity to me~ that allowed me to start up with a small capital</strong><br />
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<strong>I’m grateful that I have a group of dreamers who share the same vision and grab this awesome opportunity~</strong><br />
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<strong>I’m grateful that I after retiring for 21 years~ I’m able to make good use of the high technological tool for better communication~ Facebook</strong><br />
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<strong>I’m grateful that BWW has a fantastic SOP and SOEP (Standard Order Education Program)</strong><strong>I’m grateful that god gave me the best out of my life and also a wise+ wealthy mentor</strong><br />
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<strong>I’m grateful that when I was ready to fight again, I was given a new batch of dream fighters~ who are caring and loving~ I love you all~</strong><br />
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<strong>Add oil~ if I can achieve the best~ you allcan do it too~~// </strong><br />
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以下的图是哈佛凌晨4:00的图书馆,</div>
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<br /><br /> 这再一次印证任何人每一次的成功背后都有不为人知的付出和汗水。<br /> <br /> 哈佛老师经常给学生这样的告诫:<br /><span class="text_exposed_hide">...</span><span class="text_exposed_show"> <br /><span> 如果你想在进入社会后,在任何时候任何场合下都能得心应手并且得</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>到应有的评价,那么你在哈佛的学习期间,就没有晒太阳的时间。<br /> <br /><span> 作为闻名于世的学府,哈佛大学培养了许多名人,他们中有33位诺</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>贝尔奖获得者、7位美国总统以及各行各业的职业精英。<br /> <br /><span> 究竟是什么使哈佛成为精英的摇篮?哈佛学子接受了什么样的精神和</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>理念?这些问题吸引著成千上万的人去探知其中的答案。<br /> <br /> <br /><span> 哈佛图书馆墙上的20条训言似乎已经给出了答案。短短数语,引发</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>深思,给人启迪。<br /> <br /> <br /> 哈佛图书馆的二十条训言:<br /> 1.此刻打盹,你将做梦;而此刻学习,你将圆梦。<br /> <br /> 2.我荒废的今日,正是昨日殒身之人祈求的明日。<br /> <br /> 3.觉得为时已晚的时候,恰恰是最早的时候。<br /> <br /> 4.勿将今日之事拖到明日。<br /> <br /> 5.学习时的苦痛是暂时的,未学到的痛苦是终生的。<br /> <br /> 6.学习这件事,不是缺乏时间,而是缺乏努力。<br /> <br /> 7.幸福或许不排名次,但成功必须。<br /> <br /><span> 8.学习并不是人生的全部。但既然连人生的一部分―学习也无法征</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>服,还能做什么呢?<br /> <br /> 9.请享受无法回避的痛苦。<br /> <br /> 10.只有比别人更早、更勤奋地努力,才能尝到成功的滋味。<br /> <br /> 11.谁也不能随随便便成功,它来自彻底的自我管理和毅力。<br /> <br /> 12.时间在流逝。<br /> <br /> 13.现在流的口水,将成为明天的眼泪。<br /> <br /> 14.狗一样地学,绅士一样地玩。<br /> <br /> 15.今天不走,明天要跑。<br /> <br /> 16.投资未来的人,是忠于现实的人。<br /> <br /> 17.受教育程度代表收入。<br /> <br /> 18.一天过完,不会再来。<br /> <br /> 19.即使现在,对手也不停地翻动书页。<br /> <br /> 20.没有艰辛,便无所获</span></div>
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人生~从外打破~是压力~从内打破~是成长~<br />
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人生如鸡蛋般简单~<br />
<span class="text_exposed_hide">...</span><span class="text_exposed_show"> <br /> 内力与外力~力源不同~<br /> <br /> 结果迥异~</span></div>
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